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Neil Kramer explores the humorous side of family, friendship, love, and sex, and the dangerous art of writing about it.
He lives in NYC or LA -- he's not sure yet. He can be contacted at neilochka on yahoo.
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Tag Archives: men
Masculin, Féminin
(how I visualize myself as a woman) I’ve given a lot of thought about masculinity and femininity in the last few days, since I first mentioned this idea for “Write Like the Opposite Sex” Day. This week — my blog, my … Continue reading
California, Here I Come!
(This is an amazing video! Can you believe that the first time ABBA sang on television it was to belt out “California Here I Come!” on some lame Swedish TV show!) Finally, men, our chance is here! Like the women … Continue reading
Posted in News and Politics
Tagged ABBA, California Supreme Court, gay marriage, men, same-sex marriage
12 Comments
Beyonce in The Coffee Bean
Beyonce Says: Call me, Neilochka! You’re not going to believe this. Remember a few days ago, I wrote a post saying how insecure women were, and I said that since I am a male, I’m more confident than you. I … Continue reading
Little Artie
Therapy has had two opposite effects. It has motivated me to be more productive and organized, hence my post two days ago on how to be better organized. Thank you! Therapy has also made me incredibly self-absorbed, which is perfect for procrastination. … Continue reading
Posted in Life in General
Tagged film school, gender, life, marriage, masculinity, men, Sex, therapy, USC Cinema
25 Comments
Every Day is Men’s Day
When I was a child, I used to ask my mother on Mother’s Day, “When is Children’s Day?” and she would give the tried-and-true answer, “Every day is Children’s Day.” I was perusing through some blogs this morning, and noting … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging and the Internet, Life in General, Men and Women
Tagged BlogHer, BlogHim, men, patriarchal
39 Comments
Pee Like a Man!
(Manneken Pis in Brussels) Men, let’s be honest. Women online are selfish. We care about their issues — body image, fashion, mommyblogging, etc., but when it comes to OUR issues, they are strangely silent. How else do you explain the … Continue reading
Posted in Men and Women, News and Politics
Tagged feminism, life, Life in General, men, Norway, peeing, urination
84 Comments
The Negative Effect of my Vons Club Card on my Sex Life
I lied to you on my last blog post — the one about that Forbes article, “Don’t Marry Career Women.” I made it sound as if I’m a super-cool feminist guy, the type of evolved man who doesn’t mind one bit that Sophia … Continue reading
Posted in Life with Sophia, Los Angeles, Misc. Humor, Sex
Tagged career women, insecurity, Los Angeles, men, Safeway, Sex, supermarkets, Vons, Vons Club
71 Comments
Newsflash: Men Don’t Understand Women
My Valentine’s day was great. Sophia and I went out to dinner and then saw a comedy show. After many years of experience, I was smart enough to hold my tongue when I saw that this overpriced "Valentine’s Day Romantic … Continue reading
The Photo Shoot
Today, I finally played around with the free phone I got for being a Sprint Ambassador. It’s a cool phone with a lot of options: the ability to go online, to download music, and to watch TV. It also has a decent camera. … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging and the Internet, Sex
Tagged cockblogging, erotica, humor, men, photography, Sex, sexuality
49 Comments
Man in the Mirror
Every Friday night, a group of Jewish men meet in the apartment building I grew up in and greet the Sabbath. Most of the men are older or find it difficult to travel to a temple. Traditionally, you need ten … Continue reading
Posted in Jewish, Life with My Parents
Tagged Father's, high holidays, Judaism, Kaddish, masculinity, men, minyan, rosh hashana, shiva, sons
48 Comments



