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Neil Kramer explores the humorous side of family, friendship, love, and sex, and the dangerous art of writing about it.
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Tag Archives: life
Little Artie
Therapy has had two opposite effects. It has motivated me to be more productive and organized, hence my post two days ago on how to be better organized. Thank you! Therapy has also made me incredibly self-absorbed, which is perfect for procrastination. … Continue reading
Posted in Life in General
Tagged film school, gender, life, marriage, masculinity, men, Sex, therapy, USC Cinema
25 Comments
Dear Michael
Dear Michael, Last night, on Dancing with the Stars, the final dance was a ridiculous group number to the classic song, Rockin’ Robin. This song has been around forever, and has been released by several different artists, but without a … Continue reading
Postcard from the Road
(from our hotel room in Fort Bragg) Travelling can be stressful at times, so I’m glad Sophia and I decided ahead of time to enjoy ourselves, and to laugh off any bumps in the road. Napa is pretty, but not … Continue reading
Posted in Life with Sophia
Tagged California, life, Life in General, Mendocino, Napa, travel
24 Comments
Better Late Than Never
Five months ago, Sophia was in New York working and I was lonely. To ease my pain, many of you sent me photos of your beds. Deannie, the writer of ”Home is Where the Heart Is” told me that she wanted … Continue reading
Dixie Martin: R.I.P.
The continuing saga of how Neil met Sophia on the internet has been canceled today for a special bulletin: Dixie Martin, beloved wife of Tad Martin and mother of J.R. Chandler, died today, January 29, 2007, in Pine Valley, after … Continue reading
Posted in Movies and Television
Tagged ABC daytime, All My Children, AMC, Cady McClain, Cady's Confessions, Dixie Martin, life, Life in General, soap operas
46 Comments
I Love John Updike (Not Really About John Updike)
This week was a milestone for me. I submitted my Fame post as an op-ed at the Los Angeles Times. Will they ever actually print it? Extremely doubtful. But it was the first time I ever submitted my writing … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging and the Internet, Life in General, Sex
Tagged life, Life in General, op-ed, Sex, writing
41 Comments
To Sleep, Perchance to Blog
Nothing bugs me more than blogging “experts” pontificating on what a blog should or shouldn’t be about. Sure, it might help them write a book on blogging or speak at a conference, but what does anyone know more than … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging and the Internet, Life in General
Tagged dreaming, haircuts, life, Life in General, sleep
27 Comments
Season Tickets
So let’s see, the Pet Shop Boys, Vince Gill, and a chamber concert all in one week? Dude, my life is so boring. We’ve done Girl Scouts, Boy Scouts, the Book Fair, and Drama Club this week. Sigh. – … Continue reading
Posted in Life with My Parents, Life with Sophia, New York City
Tagged concert, life, Life in General, Music, New York, Theater, tickets
50 Comments
Even Cowgirls Have to Pee
Vince Gill’s “What the Cowgirls Do” Tonight, Sophia and I attended a concert of country star Vince Gill, which was a little odd, considering neither of us know any of his songs. Bu it was still fun seeing all the … Continue reading
Posted in Life with Sophia, Los Angeles, Music
Tagged ladies room, life, Life in General, restrooms, Vince Gill
44 Comments




The Third Annual “Thank Your First Commenter Day”
Much like the Pilgrims thanked the Indians after they had their first decent meal in the New World, I like to use Thanksgiving, not only as an excuse to stuff myself with turkey, but as an opportunity to thank the … Continue reading →