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Neil Kramer explores friendship, love, and sex, and the dangerous art of writing about it.
He lives in NYC. He can be contacted at neilochka on yahoo.
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Tag Archives: romance
21st Century Romance
Neil: So, what do you think? J: I, uh, like the idea. Neil: You don’t like it. I can hear it in your voice. J: No, it is a clever idea. It might even work. Neil: So, what’s the problem? … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging and the Internet, Men and Women
Tagged Air New Zealand, desperation, New Zealand, romance
36 Comments
The Perfect Couple
It was Sophia’s birthday on Saturday, and we went to LACMA (Los Angeles County Museum of Art). We had a great day together. “Are you two getting back together?” a friend texted me. “No,” I answered. “Just a fun … Continue reading
Posted in Art and Design, Life with Sophia, Los Angeles
Tagged marriage, perfect couple, photography, romance
38 Comments
The Blogosphere’s Valentine’s Day Emergency Hotline
(photo by sudergal, on flickr) The Valentine’s Day Emergency Hotline at mister_valentinesday (Yahoo IM) Are you alone on Valentine’s Day? Is the only Valentine’s Day Card you received the one from the supermarket with a discount coupon for Dannon Yogurt? … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging and the Internet
Tagged dating, February 14, Mr. Valentine, Ms. Valentine, romance, Valentine, Valentine's Day, valentines
47 Comments
I Don’t Understand Women
(Three Women by Fernand Leger) Thank you for all the nice things you said about my dancing debut on Citizen of the Month. I was frankly surprised by the positive reaction, especially from female bloggers. In fact, I’d like to … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging and the Internet, Food, Life with Sophia, Los Angeles
Tagged bloggers, food blogging, life, person, restaurants, romance, women
84 Comments
Valentine’s Day Blogger Serenade
Happy Valentine’s Day, Sophia! Happy Valentine’s Day, Mom! Happy Valentine’s Day, Beautiful Bloggers of the Blogosphere! May We All Find True Love and Blog About it! And now for your listening pleasure, I sing the classic "Love Will Keep Us … Continue reading
Posted in Men and Women
Tagged Captain and Tennille, love, romance, Valentine, Valentine's Day
57 Comments
Wanted: A Hot Scorpio Woman
I’m a man of science, so astrology, like tarot card reading and mind-reading, is just pure nonsense to me. Is there anyone out there who believes in astrology? Don’t be shy. I’m open-minded. Maybe you can explain how it all … Continue reading
Posted in Life with Sophia, Men and Women
Tagged astrology, compatibility, love signs, Men and Women, Pisces, romance, Scorpio, zodiac
132 Comments
Online Dating Works for Some
(photo via Meggiecat) Here’s a great story about finding love: Meet Paul Henry, a retired professor from Redding, California and Jen-Chi Anderson, a retired nutritionist from Carmel, California. Both were nearing their eighties. Both survived their spouses. Both wanted to … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging and the Internet, Men and Women
Tagged online dating, romance, seniors, seniors online
3 Comments
Looking for Love
Over 15,000 men responded to this sexy personal ad in an Atlanta newspaper: SINGLE BLACK FEMALE seeks male companionship, ethnicity unimportant. I’m a very good looking girl who LOVES to play. I love long walks in the woods, riding in … Continue reading


