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Neil Kramer explores the humorous side of family, friendship, love, and sex, and the dangerous art of writing about it.
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Tag Archives: masculinity
Return to Nature
In the past, I’ve made jokes about myself. About my lack of “masculine” interests. I don’t watch football or hockey or NASCAR. I enjoy Broadway musicals and ABBA. And I love chatting with the mommybloggers about their bra-shopping. But now … Continue reading
A Critical Look at this Porno Clip
OK, I’m not going to lie. I read about this website today that is called “a YouTube for pornography,” so I took a little “peek” to see what it was all about. Believe it or not, I try to avoid … Continue reading
Little Artie
Therapy has had two opposite effects. It has motivated me to be more productive and organized, hence my post two days ago on how to be better organized. Thank you! Therapy has also made me incredibly self-absorbed, which is perfect for procrastination. … Continue reading
Posted in Life in General
Tagged film school, gender, life, marriage, masculinity, men, Sex, therapy, USC Cinema
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The Sanjaya of the Blogosphere
My mother arrived in Los Angeles today, in preparation for Passover next week. After she unpacked, Sophia and I showed her all of the birthday cards that I received from other bloggers. “You see, Mom, friendship is more important … Continue reading
Unretouched
Some of you may have noticed that during the day, I changed the photo at my last post from a stock photo to one where I am wearing the purple bathrobe. This photo is me is un-retouched. No filters. No … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging and the Internet, Life with Sophia
Tagged manliness, masculinity, Photoshop, retouched photo, vanity
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Strong, Silent Type
Cover Your Mouth wrote this comment on my last post after I worried that my post was being taken too seriously: Listen Neil, if it makes you feel any better, I don’t give a shit about your financial stability or … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging and the Internet, Men and Women
Tagged male ego, manliness, masculinity
47 Comments
Man in the Mirror
Every Friday night, a group of Jewish men meet in the apartment building I grew up in and greet the Sabbath. Most of the men are older or find it difficult to travel to a temple. Traditionally, you need ten … Continue reading
Posted in Jewish, Life with My Parents
Tagged Father's, high holidays, Judaism, Kaddish, masculinity, men, minyan, rosh hashana, shiva, sons
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My Man Date with Rob and Kai
My friends, Rob and Satomi, have a beautiful baby boy, Kai. Rob is Jewish and Satomi is Japanese, but Kai has his mother’s Asian features. While visiting them, Rob and I decide to go for a stroll with Kai, giving … Continue reading



