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Neil Kramer explores friendship, love, and sex, and the dangerous art of writing about it.
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Tag Archives: insecurity
Trucker Bob from Nashville
I had pre-booked my American Airlines seat for the aisle seat, row 17, seat D. When I arrived at it, I was pleasantly surprised to learn that I was seated next to an attractive woman in her thirties in middle … Continue reading
Posted in Life in General
Tagged American Airlines, assertiveness, being nice, BlogHer, insecurity, travel
29 Comments
Anxiety Friday – It’s Your Turn!
Off to Las Vegas for the weekend, so my Friday post is early. I’m meeting some bloggers, which always causes me some anxiety. But why should I be the one always talking about my insecurity and self-esteem problems? I’m curious … Continue reading
Dear Vivian
Dear Vivian, I have never done this before — written to a blogger who I don’t know personally — but I must tell you how much your last few posts, your series on “Love and Happiness,” has meant to me. … Continue reading
Unfollowed
I signed up for his application that emails you when someone “unfollows” you on Twitter. This means that you immediately learn when a person has decided to refuse to see your brilliant 140-character “tweets” on their timeline, so they will … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging and the Internet, Life in General
Tagged insecurity, Twitter, unfollow
53 Comments
A One Day Break From Arrogance
I miss Brenda, my friendly therapist in Los Angeles, the one with the nice legs. During our last meeting, I told her I was going to New York for a few month. I was embarrassed to tell her this, fearing … Continue reading
A Sh***y Post
For the first time in a very long time, I spent a good hour just looking at a blank screen. I was thinking about why you come here to this blog. I figure you come here because you like something … Continue reading
Beyonce in The Coffee Bean
Beyonce Says: Call me, Neilochka! You’re not going to believe this. Remember a few days ago, I wrote a post saying how insecure women were, and I said that since I am a male, I’m more confident than you. I … Continue reading
A Little Anorexia is Hot
I’m beginning to think that magazines intentionally choose articles to make their readers feel insecure, buy their magazine, and eat up the products advertised in the current issue. (I’m sure some blogs do the same thing) A few days ago, … Continue reading
Posted in Advertising and Marketing, Men and Women
Tagged Amanda Fortini, anorexia, Elle, insecurity, weight issues
52 Comments
More on the Last Post
Therapy was very emotional this week. I didn’t cry, but I almost did. We weren’t even talking about anything significant. I was explaining to her about some writing project. I was having some trouble with the plot. It was … Continue reading
Money
Sophia and I went to a party in Malibu, where we met this woman who was telling us how her husband had just bought his seventh car. Sophia asked if he traded in his car every year, thinking that he … Continue reading
Posted in Life with Sophia, Los Angeles
Tagged envy, friendship, insecurity, money, wealth
58 Comments