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Neil Kramer explores the humorous side of family, friendship, love, and sex, and the dangerous art of writing about it.
He lives in NYC or LA -- he's not sure yet. He can be contacted at neilochka on yahoo.
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Tag Archives: friendship
My African-American Friend
“Hello.” “Derrick? This is Neil.” “Well, this is a surprise.” “Listen, I know we haven’t spoken in a long time.” “I’m not apologizing.” “I know. I know. It was my fault. It’s OK that you went to Jennifer’s party and … Continue reading
Can Men and Women (Bloggers) Just Be Friends?
I recently wrote a recent post titled, “How to Get Hot Chicks to Read Your Blog.” It was a response to an email from a male blogger who was in awe of all my female readers. But there’s a negative … Continue reading
Money
Sophia and I went to a party in Malibu, where we met this woman who was telling us how her husband had just bought his seventh car. Sophia asked if he traded in his car every year, thinking that he … Continue reading
Posted in Life with Sophia, Los Angeles
Tagged envy, friendship, insecurity, money, wealth
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The Ladies Who Lunch
Dear Megan, As you know, Sophia and I had tentative plans to meet you — my long-time blogging pal — for lunch today as we passed through Riverside on the way back from Sophia’s interpreting job in San Bernardino. I apologize for … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging and the Internet, Life with Sophia
Tagged blogging, friendship, marriage
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Friends and Bloggers
(not a photo of anyone I know!) The relationships you begin to develop with fellow bloggers reminds me a lot of those you have with "real" friends. With some people, you grow closer. With others, you lose touch completely or … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging and the Internet, Life in General
Tagged bloggers, buddies, Flushing, friends, friendship
56 Comments
Neilochka Leaves His Apartment
Now that I’ve written for Blogebrity for a full three days, I think I’ve earned the right to call myself a “blogging expert.” (media outlets – please contact my agent, Sophia Lansky, for more information). As a blogging expert, let … Continue reading
Posted in Life in General
Tagged apartment dwelling, city life, friendship, Los Angeles, urban living
62 Comments
A Wimpy Post About Friendship
I always found it interesting that there are some things you can ask in polite company, such as “What do you do for a living?” and some things you can’t, such as “How much do you make?” If I said, … Continue reading




How to Make Friends Online
Considering that I don’t like most of you, it is amazing that anyone reads this blog. How To Build Strong Online Friendships in the Blogging Community.