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Neil Kramer explores the humorous side of family, friendship, love, and sex, and the dangerous art of writing about it.
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Monthly Archives: June 2009
Iron Chef, Los Angeles
Any fans of the original Iron Chef? I loved that Japanese cooking show because the chefs really took the competition to heart, as if their honor was at stake. The American version is lazy because you know Bobby Flay doesn’t … Continue reading
Michael Jackson Post from 2007
Dear Michael from October, 2007.
Keeps On Ticking
This weekend was Father’s Day and my father’s birthday. My father passed away a few years ago, during my first year of blogging. I started to write a sentimental post about my father tonight, but then I stopped. I was … Continue reading
Words Cannot
Words cannot capture the energy I feel around me, all the time. But I do not believe in those things. I cannot. I am a skeptic. I do not believe in ghosts or talking to the dead. I do not … Continue reading
Posted in Life in General
35 Comments
The Night Chicago Died
The Male Attendees of BlogHer ’09 For four years, every summer, I have been running a BlogHim on my blog, as a David’s slingshot’s response to the Goliath of the annual BlogHer Conference. During this time, the men have grown … Continue reading
Feeling Up
(fictional) Westchester, NY - Tuesday night I went shopping for some bread and juice. Afterwards, I sat in my car for two hours playing checkers on my iphone. My foot had fallen asleep. I hobbled out of the Prius and … Continue reading
Motherhood Advice
For years, I have been jealous of the power of the mothers online. Why do they get all the attention and freebies? I’m a competive person, and I’ve been scratching my head for months, trying to come up with some … Continue reading
Dear Sarah G
One of my favorite people, Sarah G, wrote this comment on my last post – Okay. So you lately have all of these kinds of posts. So I stopped coming by all of the time and stopped commenting as often. … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging and the Internet
18 Comments
How Social Media is Ruining My Plans
For four years, I have been writing jokes about BlogHer, fantasizing about my dream to go to the conference and finally use my blogging popularity for some legitimate purpose — getting some hot action from some starry-eyed female fan. For … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging and the Internet
Tagged BlogHer, information, nonsense, Sex, social media, viral
23 Comments
Thinking About Money
Is it that bad for Bank of America?! (actually a bank in a Los Angeles supermarket) With friends and family members getting laid off and the economy growing sour, I think a lot more about money lately, and how important … Continue reading



