I recommend Brussels–or Virginia.

I’m still thinking aobut starting the commune for Half Married People with Half-Assed Careers but Big Hearts.

XO

By V-Grrrl on 02.27.08 11:16 pm

V-grrrl: Can I come and live in your commune?

By Ash on 02.28.08 3:06 am

I’ve been where you are. I am really sorry you’re hurting right now.

By Diane Mandy on 02.28.08 3:27 am

i’d go to my mom’s, wish yours was closer, i’d still think about going.

By better safe than sorry on 02.28.08 4:16 am

Crap. I hate that feeling. Syracuse for a month? You’re welcome to.

By Long Story Longer on 02.28.08 4:43 am

Ah dude. I wish I’d been able to see you whilst in Cali. I’m sorry…as a sidenote, I am grateful I didnt live in a time where the bras made my boobs look like that. Write soon.

By steppingoverthejunk on 02.28.08 5:19 am

When you find that place, send me the directions. (U)

By psychomom on 02.28.08 5:21 am

Sometimes, it’s better to turn the page than to read the same old one over and over again. Yet, I am very sorry that you are going through those heart-wrenching times.

To Steppingoverthejunk: Damn, I always kind of wished that they still made bras that would make my boobs look like that!

To V-Grrrl: Love the commune concept. As someone who lives in permanent separation from a husband who is actually now a good friend, and also has a serious companion (now living at some distance from where she resides), I would like to know if I could qualify to join.

By Elisabeth on 02.28.08 6:15 am

XOXOXOXO

By Finn on 02.28.08 6:36 am

I know I’m supposed to be hurting, but just as a sidenote: I would totally do this Gale Garnett, if she’s still around. She’s like Beyonce of her time. I love that she rubs the Devil’s crotch (or is that just my imagination?)

By Neil on 02.28.08 8:25 am

Somehow..this is the era I see you in Neil. It made that clip somwhat sad for me to watch.

I went and looked at the jellyfish exhibit at the Monterey Bay Aquarium.

And up to Calistoga…near Napa…for a mud bath, a good massage and a good cry.

oh yeah..and a good bottle of wine.

By wendy on 02.28.08 8:32 am

I go to the tub. And I lock the doors.

By Miss Britt on 02.28.08 8:55 am

yes, I believe she rubs satan’s crotch, when she does that stripper move, undulating up and down.

i wonder if satan is hung?

be a man and go to a bar and drink until you explode. that’s where i would go.

By bookfraud on 02.28.08 9:08 am

You could go girl crazy or just plain crazy for a while - or you could come EAST for some Southern hospitality. If you absolutely have to stay where you are, I recommend swimming in the Pacific. Screaming underwater is therapeutic and mother ocean can absorb a lot of tears. So sorry Neilochka. Y’all are in my thoughts and prayers. Peace.
PS - I’m quietly in favor of the boobs but you’d best not talk about rubbing the devil’s crotch if you visit the South. Just saying.

By Lilymane on 02.28.08 9:18 am

Ireland. But it’s been 13 years.

I recommend it highly though. It’s the perfect place to lose yourself.

Many hugs.

By Julie on 02.28.08 9:39 am

Apparently we need to organize a group escape vacation!

By Savy on 02.28.08 10:56 am

i so like the ireland idea.

i cannot tell you where i go to go away, or else someone would find me.

i think bin laden uses the place when i’m not there. (that’s how come dubya can’t find he.)

By piglet on 02.28.08 8:42 pm

I wish you lived nearby.

By MCS on 03.03.08 3:56 pm