Tag Archives: separation

Irreconcilable Differences

Posted on August 11, 2011 by Neil

On the night before BlogHer, Sophia and I filled out the paperwork.  There were four forms to complete.   It was more complicated than I thought, forgetting for a moment that filing for divorce is a serious legal matter and … Continue reading →

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In the Limo

Posted on July 27, 2011 by Neil

“Do we tip the driver?” I asked Sophia. We were in the backseat of a limo, part of the fleet from one of the most famous of Los Angeles livery services. “I’m not sure. I suppose so.” she answered, sipping … Continue reading →

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Rock Bottom: The Trainwreck Post

Posted on March 20, 2009 by Neil

Splat.  I hit the cold hard bottom.  Since returning from my visit with my mother and Sophia down in Florida, I have fallen apart.  My anxiety level is at an all time high.  All the strands of my life are … Continue reading →

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The Sexy Email Exchange

Posted on September 3, 2008 by Neil

Hi, this is Neil’s Talking Penis.  Remember when I used to post ALL the time on “Citizen of the Month?”  You haven’t heard from me in quite a while.   Why?   Well, frankly, there has been nothing to report.  Unlike … Continue reading →

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How We Are Doing

Posted on July 30, 2008 by Neil

Many of you have emailed lately asking, “How are you and Sophia doing being apart?”   I am so glad that you asked.   Although being apart is difficult, it also gives us the opportunity for change — so both of us … Continue reading →

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Sophia Says “Hi”

Posted on July 23, 2008 by Neil

I do miss her.  Even if being apart is the best route.  I enjoy my “freedom,” but it can get lonely.  I enjoy looking at everyone’s BlogHer cleavage on Flickr, but it isn’t the same as touching the warmth and … Continue reading →

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Alas, Jet Airliner to NY

Posted on June 8, 2008 by Neil
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New Chapter

Posted on June 4, 2008 by Neil

As I begin this new chapter in my life, I promise to be honest and open with you, hiding nothing, although I will leave it to your imagination to figure out if I am wearing pants or not.

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One Month in NY?

Posted on June 1, 2008 by Neil

This week, my posts will be piss poor.   I may just skip days.  Hey, it’s just a blog.  Why am I being such a downer about the quality of Citizen of the Month?  I’m always so good with my blog … Continue reading →

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Saturday, May 24th

Posted on May 25, 2008 by Neil

MORNING In the morning, I went to see an apartment that is being rented.  This is a big step for me.  I’ve been telling you that I’m moving out for… about six months now.   To make the whole situation more … Continue reading →

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