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Neil Kramer explores friendship, love, and sex, and the dangerous art of writing about it.
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Tag Archives: Valentine’s Day
The Night Out
It was going to be our last Valentine’s Day “date night” as a married couple. We were going to attend a special film screening. Sophia’s former boss was unable to make it, so he gave the tickets to us. … Continue reading
Tea and Valentines
I was driving with Sophia today down the streets of LA when I noticed a couple, both in their late-sixties, on a street corner. They were waving flags. They seemed as comfortable with each other as any long-married couple. … Continue reading
Valentine’s Day, 2010
I’m not in a happy place in my romantic life. But for some reason, I remain optimistic about the potential of love, even when I am at a low point, like today, sitting in a hotel room a few blocks … Continue reading
Loving Neil #8
I just got off the phone with Sophia. “Tomorrow’s Valentine’s Day. What are you doing?” I asked. “Nothing. You?” “Nothing.” I noticed that a few writers online were using Valentine’s Day to participate in Hilly’s Happy Self Love Day, which … Continue reading
The Last Few Days
Valentine’s Day has always been tough for us. The pressure of Valentine’s Day, with all the hullabaloo and candy-giving, makes us question our already unsteady relationship. How can we ever live up to the romantic images on those Hallmark cards? … Continue reading
Posted in Life in General, Life with Sophia
Tagged marriage, men and women, separation, Valentine's Day
93 Comments
Send a Kiss
With Valentine’s Day coming up, I’d like to talk about kissing. One of the most important lessons I’ve ever learned about life is this — women like kissing. I’m not a natural kisser. I’m have a feeling that most men … Continue reading
The Blogosphere’s Valentine’s Day Emergency Hotline
(photo by sudergal, on flickr) The Valentine’s Day Emergency Hotline at mister_valentinesday (Yahoo IM) Are you alone on Valentine’s Day? Is the only Valentine’s Day Card you received the one from the supermarket with a discount coupon for Dannon Yogurt? … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging and the Internet
Tagged dating, February 14, Mr. Valentine, Ms. Valentine, romance, Valentine, Valentine's Day, valentines
47 Comments
The Ideal Man and Woman
sorry, Fabio, you were voted off. model for Mr. “Valentine’s Day” model for Ms. “Valentine’s Day” OK, we’re on for Valentine’s Day! I’m in the process of emailing out tentative time slots now (read here to learn more). We will … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging and the Internet, Men and Women
Tagged ideal man, ideal woman, Valentine's Day
54 Comments
Mister Valentine’s Day
A year ago this week, I wrote a post titled, “Today, We Are All Valentine’s Losers.” In it, I made a offer to my readers. If they revealed in the comments that they were a “Valentine’s Day” Loser (meaning the … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging and the Internet
Tagged February 14th, Mister Valentine's Day, Valentine's Day
57 Comments
Valentine’s Day Blogger Serenade
Happy Valentine’s Day, Sophia! Happy Valentine’s Day, Mom! Happy Valentine’s Day, Beautiful Bloggers of the Blogosphere! May We All Find True Love and Blog About it! And now for your listening pleasure, I sing the classic "Love Will Keep Us … Continue reading
Posted in Men and Women
Tagged Captain and Tennille, love, romance, Valentine, Valentine's Day
57 Comments


