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Neil Kramer explores friendship, love, and sex, and the dangerous art of writing about it.
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Tag Archives: gender
Identity
There was a story in the Wall Street Journal yesteday about Csanad Szegedi, a Hungarian politican with the extreme far-right Jobbik party, and known for his hate speech, who was forced to resign from his party position when it was … Continue reading
Posted in Jewish, Life in General, News and Politics
Tagged ant-Semitism, Csanad Szegedi, gays, gender, Hungary, identity, John Lennon, John Travolta
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I Want to Be a Samba Dancer
Lately, I have read some posts where bloggers write about their longing to be “truthful and honest” on their blogs. I think about this issue, too, but I have a difficult time choosing my reality. What is truer — the … Continue reading
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I Have a Dick, Just Like the Writers of Techcrunch
My head was spinning from all the posts, and twitters, and comments over the weekend about the BlogHer article in the Style section of the New York Times. Most of the discussions were similar: “Why do male bloggers get into the … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging and the Internet, Men and Women
Tagged BlogHer, gender, male bloggers, The New York Times
65 Comments
I’m Back to Being a Man
I’m sorry I was such an insecure woman yesterday. I’ll try to be a better woman next year during “Write Like the Opposite Sex Day.” A woman that will make you proud. That you will want to befriend. Next time, … Continue reading
Posted in Literary, Men and Women
Tagged gender, Write Like the Opposite Sex Day, writing
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Today I Am a Woman
My name is Neilochka. I am a mother of two living in Los Angeles, who doesn’t really feel like she belongs. I am insecure being around some of my more successful friends and wish that my husband was more attentive … Continue reading
Masculin, Féminin
(how I visualize myself as a woman) I’ve given a lot of thought about masculinity and femininity in the last few days, since I first mentioned this idea for “Write Like the Opposite Sex” Day. This week — my blog, my … Continue reading
“Write Like the Opposite Sex Day” – A Question
Note written an hour later after emailing with Jane: OK – forget this post! Write Like the Opposite Sex Day will go on like I said in the last post. But I’ll keep this post up anyway just so you can see how … Continue reading
Can Men and Women (Bloggers) Just Be Friends?
I recently wrote a recent post titled, “How to Get Hot Chicks to Read Your Blog.” It was a response to an email from a male blogger who was in awe of all my female readers. But there’s a negative … Continue reading
Little Artie
Therapy has had two opposite effects. It has motivated me to be more productive and organized, hence my post two days ago on how to be better organized. Thank you! Therapy has also made me incredibly self-absorbed, which is perfect for procrastination. … Continue reading
Posted in Life in General
Tagged film school, gender, life, marriage, masculinity, men, Sex, therapy, USC Cinema
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