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Neil Kramer explores the humorous side of family, friendship, love, and sex, and the dangerous art of writing about it.
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Category Archives: Men and Women
Masculin, Féminin
(how I visualize myself as a woman) I’ve given a lot of thought about masculinity and femininity in the last few days, since I first mentioned this idea for “Write Like the Opposite Sex” Day. This week — my blog, my … Continue reading
“Write Like the Opposite Sex Day” – A Question
Note written an hour later after emailing with Jane: OK – forget this post! Write Like the Opposite Sex Day will go on like I said in the last post. But I’ll keep this post up anyway just so you can see how … Continue reading
Marital Thought of the Day
Don’t make your spouse your best friend. Who do you talk to when you want to talk about your spouse or your best friend?
Can Men and Women (Bloggers) Just Be Friends?
I recently wrote a recent post titled, “How to Get Hot Chicks to Read Your Blog.” It was a response to an email from a male blogger who was in awe of all my female readers. But there’s a negative … Continue reading
How to Get Hot Chicks to Read Your Blog
Every day, I receive an email from a different male blogger, always with the same complaint, “No women ever read my blog. How do you get so many hot chicks to read Citizen of the Month?” Men, take note. This … Continue reading
How a Woman is Like a 1985 Ford Mustang
Today, I received an email from Eddie in Ohio, who was crazy about some two year old post of mine titled Neil’s Penis’s Dating Rules for Men. He liked it so much that he actually tried to follow these rules… … Continue reading
Posted in Men and Women
Tagged a post a feminist would love, Ford Mustang, iffy comparisons, men's magazines
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The Icebreaker
I’m finally back in Redondo Beach after four days at the home of Ron, my writing partner. We’re currently trying to woo a producer with a brilliant, never-seen-before story idea, and we wanted to email him an outline before … Continue reading
Happy St. Paddy’s Day
Her hair was red. It burned of poetry and stubbornness. I was a afraid of her. Her eyes flashed. She was not like any other girl I had ever met. She had the spirit of a prize fighter. She would … Continue reading
Support Your Local Male Belly Dancer
A couple of months ago, there was a meme going around titled “What I Believe.” It was cool to read about your strongly-held beliefs. I wanted to participate, but I didn’t, and I remember that it bothered me that I couldn’t … Continue reading
We Talked About Eliot Spitzer in Therapy
I spoke about Eliot Spitzer in therapy yesterday. It was a weird conversation with Brenda. Usually, I walk into the office and we fiddle about until we fall into some sort of topic. Yesterday, I sat down and immediately said, … Continue reading
Posted in Life in General, Men and Women, News and Politics, Sex
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