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Neil Kramer explores the humorous side of family, friendship, love, and sex, and the dangerous art of writing about it.
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Category Archives: Men and Women
More Angst: A Question for Married Female Bloggers
I’m a crazy guy with marital issues who currently lives with his mother and talks about his penis all the time. You’re an attractive, intelligent married woman with two children. We both blog. Can we ever really become friends? Was … Continue reading
Boys into Men
Back in August, Twenty Four at Heart published a post about male/female communication and sex. Most of those who commented were women, and they seemed to agree that men were crazed horndogs who thought about sex ALL the time. At … Continue reading
Are Mojitos Gay?
I am writing a screenplay with another writer back in Los Angeles. We get along well, but waste a lot of time getting into ridiculous arguments on the phone about the direction of the scenes. The problem is that we … Continue reading
What I Can Teach Neil About Making a Women Really Really Happy!
Today’s guest poster is Linsey from Uncouth Heathen. I knew she was special from the minute I read her About page: “I began with a major in Biochemistry, switched to History, then Political Science, Philosophy, Psychology, English and finally settled … Continue reading
I Woke Up Today with a Penis! Can My Marriage Survive?
Today’s guest post is written by blogger/mother Marinka of Motherhood in NYC. Marinka and I are fairly new to each other online., but she’s funny — and I adore funny women. But her name brought up some red flags. “Are you … Continue reading
I Have a Dick, Just Like the Writers of Techcrunch
My head was spinning from all the posts, and twitters, and comments over the weekend about the BlogHer article in the Style section of the New York Times. Most of the discussions were similar: “Why do male bloggers get into the … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging and the Internet, Men and Women
Tagged BlogHer, gender, male bloggers, The New York Times
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Sex in the Male City (in honor of BlogHim ’08)
New York City may have nine million residents, but it is a small town when it comes to meeting available women. Or at least so it seems when we go out on the town. At a half past ten, I … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging and the Internet, Men and Women, New York City, Sex
Tagged BlogHer, BlogHim, New York City, Sex and the City
33 Comments
What Blogger Women Say / What Real Women Say
What blogger women say: 1) The most important thing about a man is a sense of humor. 2) Be who you are. Wear two different color socks. It is part of your charm! 3) I want a man who listens … Continue reading
Posted in Advertising and Marketing, Men and Women
Tagged appearance, clothing, sex appeal, success, wealth
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I’m Back to Being a Man
I’m sorry I was such an insecure woman yesterday. I’ll try to be a better woman next year during “Write Like the Opposite Sex Day.” A woman that will make you proud. That you will want to befriend. Next time, … Continue reading
Posted in Literary, Men and Women
Tagged gender, Write Like the Opposite Sex Day, writing
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Today I Am a Woman
My name is Neilochka. I am a mother of two living in Los Angeles, who doesn’t really feel like she belongs. I am insecure being around some of my more successful friends and wish that my husband was more attentive … Continue reading



