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Neil Kramer explores the humorous side of family, friendship, love, and sex, and the dangerous art of writing about it.
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Tag Archives: self-help
Blog Held Hostage: Third Update
1) I have set up a date for when I am traveling to Los Angeles, and moving my stuff from Sophia’s place. 2) Sat across from an available woman, for at least an hour in real life, and flirted with … Continue reading
Not Self-Esteem, But Arrogance
I’m the last person in the world to be giving anyone any self-help advice, and I don’t trust those who usually do in blog posts, but I’ve been feeling braver and confident in certain aspects of my life lately, which … Continue reading
The Three Rungs of the Step Ladder
I’ve noticed quite a few of those I follow on Twitter talking about this new book by Chris Guillebeau titled “The Art of Non-Conformity.” He is an accomplished writer who runs a very popular website dealing with personal development and … Continue reading
Two Incompatible Self-Help Techniques
I’ve been spending some time this weekend trying to think my way out of some life issues. I feel lucky to be in this blogging community, because so many of you are clearly fucked up as well, that I never … Continue reading
Self-Help Books
Today, Sophia and I sat in Borders for half the day, reading self-help books. I was determined to find a book that described me and my “problems” in psychological terms. After my two months of therapy, I’m fully convinced I … Continue reading
Posted in Life in General
Tagged anxiety, dining coupons, procrastination, self-esteem, self-help, therapy
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The Secret
“Thou shalt not covet your neighbor’s house” spoke God, and a lightening bolt hit the table and ingrained the tenth commandment in stone for eternity. Moses, his hair turned white from being in the presence of God, shook in fear. … Continue reading
Posted in Literary, Products
Tagged marketing, nonsense, philosophy, Rhonda Byrne, self-help, snake oil, The Secret
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Fearless the Cat
I fell asleep in the living room last night and had some sort of nightmare. I would tell you what it was about, but I’m trying to be more honest in my writing, and I don’t remember it at all. … Continue reading
Never Let Them See You Sweat
Thanks to everyone who made such nice comments on my “friendship” post. I almost deleted the post after I published it, since I thought it was too wimpy – but I’m glad I didn’t. I’m especially pleased to learn that … Continue reading
Posted in Life in General, Los Angeles
Tagged EST, Forum, Hollywood, positive thinking, self-help
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