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Neil Kramer explores the humorous side of family, friendship, love, and sex, and the dangerous art of writing about it.
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Monthly Archives: May 2009
Sushi with BHJ
Sophia came out of the bathroom wearing a brown dress and flats. “You can’t wear that,” I said. “Wear the short dress and the hooker shoes with the heels. This is a MALE blogger we are meeting. His wife is … Continue reading
Call Box
I brought along a pile of old CDs to play in the car as we drove to Las Vegas. I had planned on us leaving Friday morning, but Sophia had the idea of leaving Thursday night instead. I was wary … Continue reading
Anxiety Friday – It’s Your Turn!
Off to Las Vegas for the weekend, so my Friday post is early. I’m meeting some bloggers, which always causes me some anxiety. But why should I be the one always talking about my insecurity and self-esteem problems? I’m curious … Continue reading
Proposition 8 and the California Supreme Court
Comment on Backpacking Dad‘s post on California Supreme Court’s decision on Proposition 8 – I’m saddened by today’s decision but optimistic that, in time, a few more old conservative California bigots die off and a new wave of young liberals … Continue reading
Wants to Be Congratulated for Picking Up a Can
When I sell a script or win a Nobel Prize, don’t congratulate me. I don’t need your praise to have achieved these goals. I would have done them anyway. Besides, I will have just won the Nobel Prize! What do … Continue reading
Pandora’s Box
The reason I write so many stupid posts about sex with mommybloggers has nothing to do with sex. After four and half years of blogging, I feel emotionally connected to so many people online. That makes me feel uncomfortable, because … Continue reading
What Would Jesus Rodriguez, Moralistic Web Developer Geek, Do?
Dear Jesus Rodriguez, Moralistic Web Developer Geek, I have a dilemma that only you can help me with. Last night, I was in the bed of a beautiful brunette. She had invited me there, eager for carnal pleasure. Our lips … Continue reading
Handshakes and Hugs
For years, I have been worrying about the appropriate greeting when meeting a female for the first time. Do I hug her? Kiss her? Fake kiss her? Shake her hand? Just when I was getting secure in my social etiquette … Continue reading
Monday Night Therapy
(actual magazines from therapist’s waiting room!) Last night, I went with Sophia to her therapist. It was the first time EVER that we sat in the same room with one therapist. (this part deleted) After the session, I thought I … Continue reading
I Want to Be a Samba Dancer
Lately, I have read some posts where bloggers write about their longing to be “truthful and honest” on their blogs. I think about this issue, too, but I have a difficult time choosing my reality. What is truer — the … Continue reading