Democracy requires compromise. We cannot survive in a world where ideological splits, gender politics, and vicious accusations of corruption are the daily norm. The 2016 Campaign has brought out the worst in everyone, and Iâ€™m not talking about the primary season, but the Board of Directors election in my apartment building in Queens.
There are two political camps in my building â€” Team Murray and Team Sylvia, which Iâ€™ve named in honor of their leaders. Each team has differing views on hot issues such as the efficiency of the new dryers in the laundry room, the wisdom of hiring a new management company, and the acceptable amount of electricity used in the yearly Christmas/Hanukkah decorations. Five new members of the Board are elected each year, and each side want to stack the Board with those loyal to their agenda.
This yearâ€™s trouble began a few weeks ago when tenants started to receive homemade â€œcampaignâ€ fliers slid under their door. At first, they were innocent enough â€” typical campaign promises of more parking spots â€” but the situation quickly deteriorated as more and more fliers showed up, usually at 3AM, unsigned and with vague accusations of corruption and abuse of power.
Team Murray and Team Sylvia went to war.
â€œIs there anything lower than sending around anonymous letters accusing good people of profiting from the new laundry machines?â€ screamed a new notice received under the door, written in a size 15 font.
â€œOnly cowards write anonymously!â€ the person continued on, anonymously.
The day of the big election quickly arrived. I remembered that Jana was flying in from Atlanta that same night.
â€œHave any exciting plans for us?â€ she asked me on the phone on the night before her arrival.
â€œVery exciting plans,â€ I said. â€œIâ€™m taking you to my apartment buildingâ€™s Board of Directorâ€™s election night. This will be more dramatic than any Broadway show.â€
The General Election was held in the apartment buildingâ€™s large wood-grained â€œcommunity room,â€ located near the lobby. The room, with a full kitchen and a full set of tables and chairs, has been home to countless meetings for the tenants, sweet sixteen parties and retirement dinners. It was in this room where, many years ago, I had my bris, the traditional Jewish circumcision ceremony. Â Can we get any more symbolic than that?
But tonight the room was a shelter for Democracy in Action. The candidates sat at the dais in the front, nervously fidgeting as the tenants placed their filled-out ballets into the makeshift cardboard ballot box, then sat down at one of the rows of chairs set up for the general meeting Â before the vote counting. Â My mother came early with her friends to get â€œgood seatsâ€ up front. I arrived late with Jana since she had just arrived from La Guardia Airport. We found two open seats in the back, directly behind a group of supporters of Team Murray, including Murray himself. Whispers were passing between them; there was a last minute plot afoot.
The meeting started off peacefully. As we waited for late-comers to show up and vote, the President of the Board convened an open meeting to discuss some minor issues involving the building. And thatâ€™s when the shit hit the fan. One female tenant stood up to publicly accuse some long time resident on the fifth floor as the mysterious â€œanonymous letter writer.â€ The accused fought back, insinuating that she was cheating on her husband, and stealing The New York Times from other tenants. Things only go worse.
Much has been made of the lack of decorum on the internet, with all the insults, hate, and trolls being a product of modern-day forums such as Twitter and Reddit. This makes the assumption that in the days before the Internet, the human race was kind and respectful, lovingly listening to the needs of the others. I can guarantee that Jana and I were the only ones in this room who have ever used Twitter, and there was enough â€œshamingâ€ going on in this room to fill ten timelines. Â Humans have been hitting each over the head with clubs since we were cavemen
After much loud drama, a tenant shouted everyone down, suggesting that we keep our personal issues saved for another day, and focus on the purpose of the evening â€” the election. All the ballots were now sitting in the box and it was time for the count. But first, as required by â€œthe bylaws,â€ the President of the Board, a plumber by profession, Â had to read some legal document written back in 1960 to validate the legitimacy election. Â It was a ritual done in every Board Election since then.
The tenants of the building half-listened to the legalese until he reached the President reached the last paragraph of the bylaws, which went, â€œAccording to the bylaws, as writtenÂ in June of the year 1960, if anyone so chooses to be included on the ballot as a write-in candidate, now is the last moment to do so, or else forfeit your chance. Â Would anyone else like to be added to the list of candidates?â€
This was read without emotion, much in the same way that a pastor might ask those attending a wedding if anyone present has a reason to oppose the marriage. Â No one is supposed to yell out, â€œYes,â€ except maybe a character in a romantic comedy from the 1990s.
But here is where Team Murray executed their shock and awe plot. They earlier had convinced Rashida, a friend of Murrayâ€™s wife, Allison, to add her name as a last-minute write-in candidate, hoping to stack the Board with supporters of the Team Murray agenda.
â€œIâ€™d like to add my name,â€ said the woman, a middle school teacher named Rashida.
â€œUh, OKâ€¦â€ said the Board President, unsure of the next move. In the fifty years of Board Elections, no one had ever added their name on the night of the election.
â€œYou have to add her,â€ said Murray. â€œItâ€™s in the bylaws.â€
â€œI suppose it is. Weâ€™ll have to add her,â€ he said, facing the crowd, showing his first true sign of leadership during his five years as Board president. â€œSo now if anyone wants to vote for Rashida, you can vote for her.â€
Rose, one of the members of my motherâ€™s weekly mahjongg group, stood up with an objection. Although now frail, the eighty-five year old Rose once worked at a large advertising firm and was considered intelligent and street savvy by the other tenants.
â€œI think we might have a little problem with this plan,â€ she said.
â€œWhatâ€™s that?â€ asked the Board President/Plumber.
â€œWe voted all already and our ballots are in the box.â€
Pandemonium broke out, and even King Solomon himself couldnâ€™t find a compromise between Team Murray and team Sulvia, a precursor of what is going to happen when Bernie Sanders makes a play for Hillary Clintonâ€™s super-delegates at the Democratic Convention this summer. Â Politics is an ugly business
The Board President consulted with a tenant from the fifth floor who used to work as a court stenographer, and a decision was reached
â€œWe will take all the ballots out of the box and return them to you, and then you can cross out someone and add Rashida instead.â€
It was a mess. Many tenants never signed their name to the ballot theÂ first time, so no one was quite sure which ballot belonged to which person, except if they used a special colored marker
Rashida, fearful of utter chaos, made the announcement that she was pulling out of the election, much to the dismay of Team Murray. Â She realized that it was just too complicated, and also wanted to go home before nine oâ€™clock to watch some TV show. Â The ballots were returned to the box, and a trio of supposedly unbiased tenants from the building, an accountant, a retired NYPD officer, and a stay-at-home mom, took the box behind closed doors into the â€œkitchen areaâ€ to count the ballots by hand.
As the rest of us waited for the â€œresults,â€ calmness fell over the room, and tenants socialized with each other, asking each other about their health and families. Â My mother took Jana over to meet her friends, introducing her as my â€œgirlfriend.â€ Not that I minded my mother saying it, but it did feel weird hearing her say it, especially since I never described her as such. Â But women know these things.
Jana meeting the neighbors.
The cocktail party atmosphere faded as the kitchen door swung open, and the election committee returned with results. The crowd returned to their seats. It was time. Call Wolf Blitzer.
The election results were a surprise. Â Despite the maneuvering of the Machiavellian Team Murray, it was a clean sweep by Team Sylvia. Â All five of the Team Sylvia candidates were elected to the Board.
Murray himself stood up and announced the entire election a fraud.
â€œItâ€™s an illegal election.â€
â€œWhyâ€™s that?â€ asked the Board President, who was re-elected for a second term.
â€œBecause the ballot box was opened, making it null and void!â€
â€œBut we only did that because your own candidate decided to run at the last moment before she changed her mind!â€
â€œI demand a new election.â€
â€œWeâ€™re not having a new election!â€
â€œThen Iâ€™ll take this entire apartment building and the Board of Directors to court!â€
Insults were flung. Someoneâ€™s wife was called a whore. Arguing was heard for hours as most of the tenants shrugged, and went upstairs to their apartments. Rashida went home to watch her TV show.
â€œSo what did you think?â€ I asked Jana as we took the elevator upstairs.
â€œThat was the best time Iâ€™ve ever had in New York.â€
A week later, all parties agreed to accept the results, as long as it goes down in the history books with an asterisk, much like the contested election of George W. Bush.
Politics as usual.