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Tag Archives: fashion
Your Fashion Questions Answered
Have you ever noticed that whenever there is fashion advice given in a woman’s magazine, it is always written by… a woman? I find this discriminatory, as if 50% of the population had no opinion on the matter. In honor … Continue reading
My Favorite Shirt
I’ve been anxious and unproductive lately. I looked up my symptoms — back tension, worry, sleepiness — and apparently I have now overcome my old ailments of codependency, people-pleasing, and OCD to catch something new from that sneezy cashier at … Continue reading
Case: Clothes
Author Tom Wolfe It shouldn’t surprise you that I spend so much time online. I can make myself seem interesting just by using the written word, and before you know it, women are throwing me their virtual bras at me. … Continue reading
The Nehru Jacket
If you met me, you wouldn’t think I am very fashionable. I write. I blog. I go Target. wear jeans and a t-shirt. I go to the theater or a concert every now and then, but LA isn’t a very … Continue reading
Celebrating Ten Years of Being Free from Shoe Trends
Today is a special day for me. I am cleaning out my closet and tossing away these old Doc Martens that I bought in 1997. Why is this important? These were the last pair of shoes that I bought solely … Continue reading
Posted in Life in General
Tagged Doc Martens, fashion, footwear, nostalgia, retro, shoes, sneakers
35 Comments
Why I Was Rejected From Project Runway
Assignment: make a “slinky” evening dress for a top New York fashion model. (I apologize for the cheap fashion-industry joke, La Coquette)
Posted in Art and Design, Movies and Television
Tagged Bravo, design, fashion, Movies and Television, Project Runway, TV
29 Comments
The Devil Wears Converse
Since I’m still in New York for the rest of the week, I decided to go into Manhattan for a job interview with Anna Wintour at Vogue Magazine. Anna: “So, Neil, how much experience do you have in the … Continue reading
Posted in Literary, Movies and Television, New York City
Tagged Anna Wintour, fashion, Lauren Weisberger, Meryl Streep, The Devil Wears Prada, Vogue
34 Comments
Neilochka Sez: Boycott the Fashion Industry!
AP Newswire — Neil “Neilochka” Kramer, a popular blogger from Los Angeles, and a well-known advocate for women’s issues (despite him being a red-meat eating hetereosexual), has called for a boycott of many of the top fashion designers and most … Continue reading
Posted in Art and Design, News and Politics, Products
Tagged fashion, H&M, Karl Lagerfeld, size
98 Comments
Fall Fashion
My new Los Angeles blogging pal, Sanora, at Bad Maria has a problem. Her husband and she have been invited to a catered BBQ on Sunday, and the invitation says "California Casual attire." She’s a pretty down-to-earth gal, and is worried about … Continue reading
Posted in Los Angeles, New York City, Products
Tagged California casual, Dolce & Gabbana, fall fashion, fashion, Fashion Week, Los Angeles, New York
41 Comments
OhmyGod! A Size 14 in the Beverly Center!
Remember how in Tootsie, Dustin Hoffman’s character learned what it was like to be a woman by dressing as a female? I was reminded of that movie when I went shopping this past weekend at my local mall. The Beverly Center … Continue reading
Posted in Los Angeles
Tagged Beverly Center, Beverly Hills, clothing, fashion, Los Angeles, plus size women
25 Comments


