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Marcia, Marcia, Marcia


Bobby: “What the hell do you talk about for three hours at a time?”

Neil: “We’re in a long distance relationship. All we have at our disposal is chatting and texting. We’re on the phone every day.”

Bobby: “But three hours a day?!

Neil: “We talk about everything. Our lives, movies, online stuff.

Bobby: “Oh, yeah. I forgot about that imaginary online world you’re in where you have 10,000 friends who don’t know that you really live with your mother.”

Neil: “It’s not all imaginary.”

Bobby: “Let me ask you something. Did you really share a room with two hot chicks at that blogging conference, like in Three’s Company?”

Neil: “Yes. It was exactly like Three’s Company.”

Bobby: “You know, in the real life “Three’s Company,” I bet Jack was banging both of them.”

Neil: “Yeah, probably.”

Bobby: “They just never showed you that on TV because HBO wasn’t invented yet.”

Neil: “Note to self. Pitch “Three’s Company – the Real Story” to HBO.”

Bobby: “So, isn’t your girlfriend — all the way in New Zealand — worried about you sharing a hotel room with two mom-blogging hotties?”

Neil: “Nah. She isn’t like that. She’s pretty sure of herself.”

Bobby: “Good. You don’t need another needy woman in your life.”

Neil: “Well, there is ONE woman who I have to be careful about when I mention her. Some blogger in Massachusetts. Marcia Jenturn.”

Bobby: “Why? You banging her?”

Neil: “No, no. It’s just that I love her writing so much that I’m always talking about her.”

Bobby: “What does she write about? Her sex life?”

Neil: “No, mostly about her feeling depressed.”

Bobby: “She sounds a lot of fun.”

Neil: “Oh, but she writes so beautifully —

Bobby: “It sounds like you have a crush on her. Like you did with yearbook editor in high school.”

Neil: “Judy Weiss. Uh, OK. Maybe a little.”



Her: “So, anything else new online? Haven’t had much of a chance today.”

Neil: “Oh, you have to read this incredible new post by… uh…uh…”

Her: “Go ahead. You can say her name.”

Neil: “Marcia Jenturn.”

Her: “Yeah, yeah. Marcia, Marcia, Marcia. What did she write about now?”

Neil: “She wrote a beautiful poem about a bird. It was like she WAS the bird.”

Her: “Look, she’s single. Why don’t you ask her out already? You clearly like her.

Neil: “I like her writing.”

Her: “I love you, Neil. But this is never going to work out with us living so far away. I give you my permission to ask her out on a date.”

Neil: “I don’t want to date her.”

Her: “Well, she lives closer to you than I do.”

Neil: “Stop it. You’re being silly. I don’t want to date her. She’s not my type. She’s way more talented than I am. It would make me uncomfortable.”

Her: “Wait a minute. Are you saying you the only woman who IS your type is a woman who is LESS talented than you?”

Neil: “No, of COURSE NOT. I mean, I like you. You are very talented. Super Talented.”

Her: “Super Talented in what?”

Neil: “Well, you are very sexy.”

Her: “I am super talented being sexy?”

Neil: Yes!

Her: What a waste. If I knew that was my main talent, I would have gotten a degree in pole dancing, not English Literature?”

Neil: “No, no. You’re also very smart. And kind. Super kind.”

Her: “And what about MY writing?”

Neil: “Well, you are so busy lately, with school and your son. So you don’t get a chance to write much anymore.”

Her: “What about when I do write on my blog? You’re a writer. You know good writing. Is my writing ever as good as Marcia Jenturn’s?”

Neil: “You know, I don’t want to change the subject, but Marcia Jenturn is our biggest fan. She is always telling me on IM that I should stop being a wimp and move to New Zealand. To “follow my heart,” as she said so poetically. She is so wise.”

Her: “You IM Marcia Jenturn — about us?”

Neil: “She understands LOVE so well. You know, she’s a poet.”

Her: “I see. Can I expect you to soon show up at her house to take Instagram photos of her.”

Neil: “Well, actually, in two weeks, we might go on a Instawalk together. Have you seen her photography? Marcia’s has such an eye for bold colors and light!”

Her: “MARCIA, MARCIA, MARCIA! Why do you want to even be with me?”

Neil: “Because I love you! There is no one else like you in this world!”

Her: “But look at Marcia. She is amazing in everything. You say so herself.”

Neil: “Wait, are you jealous of her? Is that what I’m beginning to hear.”

Her: “Yes, maybe a little.”

Neil: “There’s no reason to be jealous of her. She means nothing to me compared to you. In fact, we OWE her for much of our success.”

Her: “We do?”

Neil: “Yes. If it wasn’t for her, I would have never done that “thing” for you when I was in New Zealand.”

Her: “Huh? What does she have to do with you doing that “thing?”

Neil: “Well, earlier that day, I emailed her and she told me that I definitely should try it out if I wanted to impress you.”

Her: “You emailed Marcia Jenturn for sex advice while you were here?”

Neil: “She’s a poet! She understands this stuff!”



Bobby: “I can’t believe you didn’t speak to New Zealand all weekend? Did you get into a fight?”

Neil: “No. No. Nothing like that. She was just busy.”

Bobby: “Oh yeah? What was she doing? Playing hard to get?”

Neil: “Nah, she was just online all weekend with… Marcia Jenturn?”

Bobby: “Uh-oh!”

Neil: “No, it’s actually quite funny. It seems that after all that, they found out that they attended the same college together back in the 1980s, so they contacted each other, and spent all night chatting online. Now, they’re best buddies.”

Bobby: “Holy shit! You realize that if they become friends, they’re going to talk about everything. And I mean everything.”

Neil: “They are?”

Bobby: “Women, Neil. Yes.”

Neil: “Shit.”

Bobby: “It’s over, Neil. Your little online literary crush with Marcia Jenturn is dead.”

Neil: “Sigh. I know. I wonder if Judy Weiss is on Facebook.”


  1. Erykah

    W. Somerset Maugham – “The love that lasts the longest is the love that is never returned”

  2. jana

    Fabulous! **stands and claps**

  3. Laurel (Dawn Storey)

    I need to see one of your plays, Neil. If a short blog post like this can make me laugh out loud, seeing a couple of hours of it on stage would be positively therapeutic!

  4. Sarah Piazza

    I know too much to read this post. I should not have read this post. I need a shower.

    Still imagining Three’s Company with Marty and Jean. And, uh, Marcia Jennturn.

    Christ, I need another shower.

  5. The Animated Woman

    Oh the genius of human foibles! I could totally animate this as a short film and we’d prolly win prizes and stuff.

  6. Tanya

    Three hours isn’t too long to talk on the phone. That is about how long my husband and I talked on the phone when we were in a long distance relationship.

  7. Marty

    I see what you did here. From our round table.

  8. V-Grrrl @ Compost Studios

    So fortunate to write a boring, girly blog, unsuccessful, married, and not talented enough to threaten anyone. This is why we are friends.

    P.S. I have a crush on Marcia Jennturn too. When are you going to introduce me to Judy Weiss?

  9. V-Grrrl @ Compost Studios

    P.S. Once you and NZ move in together, you’ll have 3 minute conversations, like every other parent in the world.

  10. Sophie (Yes. Marcia's daughter.)

    Well. I’m scarred for life. Thank you for that insightful literature.

  11. Neil

    Sophie, better you learn the complexities of life NOW.

  12. Absence of alternatives

    BlogHer 2014: Vignettes of Neil Kramer’s Blog Posts.

    Casting open soon.

    Please send in Instagrammed photos of yourself. No selfies.

    Stay tuned.

  13. Father Muskrat

    it really is time to move to NZ.

  14. Kizz

    The movie of your life is going to be fucking spectacular!

  15. Roxanne

    People still use phones to TALK to each other?

  16. alejna

    This was very entertaining. The comments almost as much as the post. (It’s also very intriguing.)

    I’m looking forward to the day when someone produces a screenplay you’ve written, Neil.

  17. GrandeMocha

    Dear Bobby,

    We know Neil lives with his mother. We still love him.


    P.S. I would love to see the HBO version of Three’s Company. Will there be vampires in it?

    • Neil

      Oh shit. You do know?

  18. New Zealand

    Y’ know I’d never ask, is my writing as good as Marcia Jenturn’s.

    That’d be like a college girl comparing herself to Sylvia Plath.

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