Citizen of the Month

the writing and photography of Neil Kramer

How We Are Doing

Many of you have emailed lately asking, “How are you and Sophia doing being apart?”   I am so glad that you asked.   Although being apart is difficult, it also gives us the opportunity for change — so both of us jumped on the express train to personal transformation.

Sophia has decided to go “LA” blond.

I have decided to become a “NY” raving lunatic who drools all over himself in the subway.


  1. Your look needs a little work. 😉

  2. Funny, I’d imagined a gentler creature. Does Neil need to be introduced to the pleasures found within a good day spa?

  3. Hm. I’m not sure about the blonde.

  4. She looks great.

    You look like you could use a shower.

  5. Non-Highlighted Heather

    July 30, 2008 at 4:33 pm

    I think you went a little heavy on the low lights.

  6. Wait a minute, are you my cable guy???????

  7. Dude! You look hawt!

  8. You look better and much more natural.

  9. Thanks for the heads up – I’ve been in town lately and will try to remember to say hi if I see you on the E.

  10. I bet no homies fuck with you though.

    : )

  11. The blonde is lovely, though.

  12. You sound like a lovely couple.

  13. I hope you have had your shots. 🙂

  14. Man, I thought I was lazy about shaving when the wife’s away.

  15. I’m sure there are some excellent waxers in NY.

  16. awesome that is how I feel next to my wife… grr I am shrek and she stayed as princess fiona instead of becoming as frightening as me.

  17. You need a wax job, Neil!

  18. Mhypeen ‘hiza Hooj

    July 30, 2008 at 7:24 pm

    I need to do more research on this, but here is what I have so far.

  19. progress, not perfection i always like to hear.

  20. damn, you are looking FINE, mr. man. 😉

  21. Sophia looks lovely!

  22. Neil, Next time you’re in LA, you’ll have to come in and get waxed. Natural look can be good but there is such a thing as too natural.

    manscaping and the manzilian

  23. Easy on the “product” there, my good man.

    Moderation in all things, Neil.

  24. I tend to avoid posts like this, but I really like this one. Also, check this one it.. it’s somewhat related

  25. This is like King Kong and Fay Wray all over again! I just hope the ending is happier.

  26. Somehow, it’s totally working for me. I’ve always heard New Yorkers were more adventurous than the rest of us.

  27. Honey, it’s just the humidity. This too shall pass.
    Sophia…blonde, brunette…gorgeous.

  28. Neil, your such an animal…

  29. LOL! You both look like individuals – which is important. I do get why she may have wanted a break – while her hair is fab – your’s could use some grooming attention. I could lend you my Gays if you like. They can clean you up and the chicks will be fighting over your primitive self!

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