the writing and photography of Neil Kramer

Sophia Says “Hi”

I do miss her.  Even if being apart is the best route.  I enjoy my “freedom,” but it can get lonely.  I enjoy looking at everyone’s BlogHer cleavage on Flickr, but it isn’t the same as touching the warmth and softness of the woman you love.  Only when there is love, does the energy flow into your hands from the female  bosom, making your blood dance wildly and your soul as bright as the sun.

Sophia sends regards, and photos.  She’s lost 15 pounds, a combination of wii-fit and a lack of stress.


  1. Katebits

    Aw. I wish you both well.

  2. the communicatrix

    That is a great shot of Sophia against the green wall! Yay for Wii Fit! And ladybloggers!

  3. Neil

    Nintendo, can I get a free wii now, like all the mommybloggers? I mentioned you, didn’t I?

  4. kat

    a combination of wii-fit and a lack of stress.

    profundity in such simplicity. you are so good at this. (is profundity a word? and if it is, does it mean what i think it means? gah.)

  5. piglet

    this is an amazing demonstration of love for your wife, and it warmed the cockles of my heart. she is a beautiful woman.

    i hope your resolution will be in the way of a happy ending, just like the fairy tales.

  6. stepping over the junk

    ah hun.

  7. AnnieH

    Sophia AND Menuel all on one page. (God is truly good:>)) Sophia is quite lovely. I’m still hoping for a happy ending.

  8. mary

    Oh I see. This sweet post is all just a ploy to get a free wii. Naughty, Neil. Real naughty.

    P.S. Congrats on the 15 pounds, Sophia!

  9. chez beziat

    You warm my heart, you do.

    Beautiful pictures and wonderful words.

  10. lizardek

    Sophia, that lack of stress looks really great on you!

  11. natalie

    this post almost made me cry. really. and i can’t put my finger on why exactly.

  12. Nat

    God Neil, you’re a good man.

  13. vodkamom

    Love makes the world go round…..

  14. TRO

    Sophia’s a babe. Her pictures makes me feel all warm and tingly.

  15. Mrs Mogul

    When are you getting back together!! Romantic me!!!

  16. nancypearlwannabe

    Pretty lady! I love Sophia’s curly hair.

  17. kateanon

    It would be nice if all men would feel this way about the women they love. May your paths come back together soon.

  18. TorontoPearl

    She doesn’t wear a wedding band; do you (still), Neil?

    “Absence makes the heart grow fonder”…or so we hope.

  19. Rhea

    She’s lookin’ good.

  20. V-Grrrl

    You’re just trying to make Menuel jealous. And Sophia’s trying to meet hot men via your blog.

    And we’re watching!

    “Internet users” one and all.

  21. Finn

    Hi Sophia! You look gorgeous!

    I know you guys love each other so much. I hope you always each other no matter what.

  22. blondefabulous


    A true gentleman, that’s what you are Neil.

  23. Neil

    V-grrrl — Not a bad idea for a screenplay — separating couple help each other to find new mates through the internet —

  24. Miss Britt

    I’m going to go out on a limb here and suggest that bottom photo has been cropped.

  25. churlita

    Sophia is really gorgeous…But then you already know that.

    I hope you two work things out in whatever way works best for you two. I also hope you get a free Wii.

  26. sizzle

    She’s as beautiful as ever.

  27. V-Grrrl

    I thought maybe Linda could make a YouTube matchmaker video for me and men could audition to be Mr. V-Grrrl 2.0.

    If I knew what alternate male technology could do for me, I could decided whether it’s wise to upgrade or whether the current hardware and software are meeting my needs, y’know?

  28. Danny

    Sophia looks fantastic. And I love the glasses.

  29. melanie

    Lovely. thank you for sharing yourself sophia and good luck to you both.


  30. wendy

    A fitting tribute to your girl.

    Any reunions soon?

  31. sam

    She’s gorgeous!! I really love the bottom pic!

  32. better safe than sorry

    i don’t think i’ve seen her in a photo with glasses, she is beautiful, and is she naked, yikes!

  33. Mrs. G.

    I love your Sophie posts. You must be the world’s nicest estranged husband.

  34. Iron Fist

    I like the part where you talk about bosoms.

  35. All Adither

    Nah, Miss Britt. She’s wearing an evening gown for sure. She looks to be somewhere fancy with that green brick wall and all.

  36. Winter

    She’s hot, Neil. No wonder you miss her!

  37. Lucy


    yesterday I wanted a good cry, but couldn’t

    after this, the tears are spilling

    i’m so grateful to all who share

  38. ingrid

    She looks hot. 🙂

    And god life is hard sometimes.

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