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Neil Kramer explores the humorous side of family, friendship, love, and sex, and the dangerous art of writing about it.
He lives in NYC or LA -- he's not sure yet. He can be contacted at neilochka on yahoo.
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Category Archives: Blogging and the Internet
BlogHer ’11 Recap
This year, my experience with the BlogHer conference was all about the individual conversations and connections. Held in beautiful, sunny San Diego, the conference was as mellow and inviting as the host city. The weekend gave me an opportunity … Continue reading
The Music Conference
As a professional musician, I am excited about attending this music conference next week in San Diego. It gives me a chance to meet my peers. A friend is going for the first time. She is excited about meeting a … Continue reading
Storytelling and “Doing Good”
Blogging story of the day: Big-time blogger goes to third-world country, writes post about what she saw, and others criticize her for being a wealthy white woman doing “poverty tourism.” But this blogger is “doing good!” say her defenders. I’ve … Continue reading
Jealousy and Envy in the Blogosphere
There are two types of people, each with a different take on the importance of culture vs. the individual. There are those who focus on the wonderful fact that anyone who works hard enough can succeed, and others who say … Continue reading
A Month of Instagram
In the last month, I’ve taken over 300 photos of my neighborhood in Queens and around the New York City, and posted them on Istagram, which is a Twitter-type app on the iPhone for photography. I’ve also greatly enjoyed … Continue reading
Back Next Week
Why haven’t I been writing on this blog? I can give you the professional answer. I am busy with work. I can give you the artistic answer. I have been focusing my energies on taking photographs for Instagram rather than … Continue reading
A Week of Photos
This week was one of my most pleasurable weeks online that I’ve had in a long time. I had fun. I played around on Instagram, an easy-to-use photo social media app that is on my phone, taking random photos of … Continue reading
Dear Neilochka, Mr. Internet Etiquette
For the longest time, I’ve wanted to be of some service to my friends. I want to give back to the community, to share some of my online experiences to help you learn. But what can I teach you … Continue reading
Deleting Posts
I have an idea that I think will re-energize personal blogging for many of us, but could also be controversial with the traditionalists, because the idea goes against the established rules. The concept is called “deleting posts.” Here is what … Continue reading
My Media Diet: What I Read
One of my guilty pleasures on the web is The Atlantic Magazine’s online “Media Diet.” This is not the typical online venue where someone goes to”goof off.” There are no songs about “Friday” here. The column views itself as a … Continue reading



