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Neil Kramer explores friendship, love, and sex, and the dangerous art of writing about it.
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Category Archives: Jewish
Aligning the Planets
I was returning from having a cup of coffee at the McDonald’s across the street when I encountered a white-haired elderly man who lived in my apartment building. I didn’t remember his name, but I knew him from my youth … Continue reading
My Once A Year Jewish Rant
Today, I’m going to take this time to explore some Jewish-related subjects that I’m in the mood to rant about to you, my Jewish and non-Jewish friends. I’m not sure why it occurred to me to write this today. Maybe … Continue reading
I Believed in Santa Claus
I never thought to tell this story on the blog, mostly because it didn’t seem like anything special, but when I told a blogger about it, her response was surprising, so maybe my experience was more unique than I thought. … Continue reading
Posted in Jewish, Life with My Parents, New York City
Tagged Christmas, Hanukkah, Macy's, Santa Claus
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Thinking About Religion
I don’t know if it is stress, loneliness, the upcoming Holiday season, or economic fears about the future, but I thought about religion today. Perhaps, it is the book I am reading, “The Jew and the Lotus,” or the pizza … Continue reading
Yom Kippur 2008
I take Yom Kippur seriously. Well, somewhat. I’m not going to synagogue this year, but I will fast most of the day. Am I religious? Not really. But unlike the other Jewish holidays, which revolve around food and family, this … Continue reading
The Orthodox Jewish Guy Outside the Supermarket
I went down to Pathmark Supermarket to buy whole wheat hamburger buns and some bottles of Snapple. In front of the entrance, was an Orthodox Jew handing out leaflets. He was wearing a yarmulke and tzitzit, a traditional fringed garment worn under … Continue reading
Posted in Jewish, Movies and Television, New York City
Tagged Chabad, conversion, Jews, Orthodox, proselytizing, religion
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Prayer
In the last post, I had a little fun with a BlogHer session titled “Is Mommyblogging Still a Radical Act?” I found this amusing to watch the word “radical” exploited and mangled so all the air seeps out of it … Continue reading
The July 4th BBQ
Yes, diversity. We all love it. But mostly when your “group” is in the majority and the “others” agree to do everything your way. But once the Latinos want to speak Spanish, the Jews grumble about nativity scenes on public … Continue reading
Posted in Jewish, Life with My Parents, New York City
Tagged BBQ, Glatt Kosher, July 4th, Queens
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Back to the Shtetl!
In the last issue of Los Angeles’ Jewish Journal, there was a full-page advertisement from the McCain campaign. The ad consisted of a letter written from a woman in New Jersey who said she was once a Democrat, but was … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging and the Internet, Jewish
Tagged BlogHer, H. Peter Nennhaus, Israel, McCain
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Neilochka Loves Matzoh Brei
I have been honest with you that things are bumpy with Sophia. I’m sure there are many single women out there waiting for the post where I finally write — “I’ve been booted out,” because that means it is now … Continue reading


