Comments on: Change

By: Citizen of the Month » Aligning the Planets

Citizen of the Month » Aligning the Planets — Wed, 18 Feb 2009 00:41:14 +0000

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By: 52 Faces

52 Faces — Mon, 13 Oct 2008 20:30:59 +0000

lolol Ah, stop making me miss NY!

Can’t believe I just found your blog now. One of the few well-written ones in the blogosphere and not about being a mom to three beautiful-only-to-them children or making money blogging.

By: Dana

Dana — Sat, 11 Oct 2008 00:56:56 +0000

You’re getting into virtual sex now, Neil. No. No. No.

By: Ginger

Ginger — Thu, 09 Oct 2008 03:08:17 +0000

Great post. I am not a big fan of change. I am not a big fan of being in a rut, either. I guess I’m never satisfied!

Typical, huh?

By: better safe than sorry

better safe than sorry — Wed, 08 Oct 2008 11:05:56 +0000

i thought about this post yesterday, i don’t see what is wrong with being in a rut. i think most of us are in ruts, the difference between my rut and your rut is that you’re not happy about the rut you’re in. if you had moved to ny, met a lovely new lady, were madly in love, this rut that you’re now in, it would feel different. there’s nothing wrong with being in a rut, i think it’s the not loving thing that has gotten you down.

By: heartache heartburn

heartache heartburn — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 15:01:55 +0000

Thanks for sharing this. I am in a season of change in my life, and while I know things will work out in the end I am facing it kicking and screaming I’m afraid. I never have liked changed. It messes with my head too much sometimes.

By: vodkamom

vodkamom — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 11:01:36 +0000

that status quo is such a stubborn bitch.

**loved your post. damn, I didn’t want to get sappy.

By: Keri

Keri — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 02:24:24 +0000

Glad I came back to peruse the comments. Found even MORE wisdom… Good stuff to ponder.

By: Baroness von Bloggenschtern

Baroness von Bloggenschtern — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 00:14:29 +0000

Change vs. More of the Same, version 5769.

Big chance for change this Thursday, boychick.

Everyone can intellectualize about what they will do prior to this day; what will set you apart is what you choose to act upon. I wish you strength and an open heart to all that may prevail upon it.

(wow – that sounded kinda horoscope-y; not my intention!!)

By: summer

summer — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 00:05:56 +0000

(found you via Homegirl’s blog)
now i know why she called you the kick-assest. you made me chuckle aloud with the little girl and her “no change” bit at the end. yayee! a new place to lurk!