for an moderate sexhaver a lot of porn is unsexy. But that’s because most of porn is for either virgins or professional porn-addicts.
Virgins an those who watch porn very seldom find that any naked woman is a turnon, so they tolerate the horrible hydraulics with fakebreasted 40-yearold anorecsiacs. any nakedness and sex will do.

and the professional porn wathcers don’t want romance or naturality. they want big boobs and extreme closeups of anal sex.

I guess average porn isn’t targeted for an average man. average man would like to have compassionate porn with natural looking women and without screaming and pounding. but because average men are only a small fraction of porn buyers (though there are a lot of them, they only consume once and a while, when virgins and professionals consume porn all the time ). thus most of porno is just sick and twisted.

and if you feel that the the longevity of male porn star is fiction or coercion, then you obviously haven’t tried venlafaxin. 225mg each morning and you don’t have worry about premature ejaculations. the only problem is that you yourself get bored before you’re orgasm. just like in the pornos

And one thing I really dont like to see in my porn is chocolate. All women arent Cathy comics, c’mon.

But, thanks — for helping my readers.

I think that’s a huge and untrue generalization. I’m a woman and I like watching (good) porn AND reading erotica. I know many women who get turned on by visuals…and also audio.

And that’s what I’ve always hated about male-centric porn. As Neil says, the guy stands there stone-faced and makes no noises and has to be too “masculine” to enjoy it. Of course, this is mostly because directors think the men watching the scenes don’t want to really know the guy is there; the think they only want to focus on the female. So they overmike her, and tell him to shut up. It’s no wonder so few women watch porn…where is the mutual enjoyment that happens in *real* sex? Who would enjoy having sex with a stone-faced, entirely silent man? In this way, gay male porn is better porn for women than a lot of straight porn, because at least the guys are free to act as if they’re enjoying themselves. At least one gets to witness male pleasure.

Neil, you asked what porn might be good for women and I don’t think anyone answered. It’s generally said in most of the thinking sex blog circles that the films made by Tony Comstock are really well-done films that are geared toward both males and females. You might want to check them out.