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	<title>Comments on: A Sh***y Post</title>
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	<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2008/03/12/a-shy-post/</link>
	<description>Neil Kramer is a writer in Los Angeles.  Citizen of the Month is his blog.  Make yourself at home.</description>
	<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jul 2008 03:55:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Ash</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2008/03/12/a-shy-post/#comment-222751</link>
		<dc:creator>Ash</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2008 07:05:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A blog is a reflection of who you are - if you want to be fake-happy then that's ok too, but if you want to reflect reality, and sometimes reality is pretty damn shitty, then shitty posts will have to happen. 

It's a bit like the first few times you have sex with someone new. You're trying so hard to make a good impression, to be good, to do the right things. Someone told me that we were having 'Cosmo-sex' once. You know, like the magazine? Then after a few times you get past the Cosmo-sex and you start having real sex. 

It's a bit like that with the shitty blog posts. You've stopped having Cosmo-sex with your readers Neil - now we're onto the real thing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A blog is a reflection of who you are - if you want to be fake-happy then that&#8217;s ok too, but if you want to reflect reality, and sometimes reality is pretty damn shitty, then shitty posts will have to happen. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s a bit like the first few times you have sex with someone new. You&#8217;re trying so hard to make a good impression, to be good, to do the right things. Someone told me that we were having &#8216;Cosmo-sex&#8217; once. You know, like the magazine? Then after a few times you get past the Cosmo-sex and you start having real sex. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s a bit like that with the shitty blog posts. You&#8217;ve stopped having Cosmo-sex with your readers Neil - now we&#8217;re onto the real thing.</p>
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		<title>By: littlepurplecow</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2008/03/12/a-shy-post/#comment-222664</link>
		<dc:creator>littlepurplecow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Mar 2008 03:18:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It feels good to be back.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It feels good to be back.</p>
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		<title>By: Jennifer</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2008/03/12/a-shy-post/#comment-222641</link>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Mar 2008 16:23:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My shi**y posts nearly always come about when I feel some inane pressure to post SOMETHING. It's when I remember that this whole exercise started - for me - as an electronic journal, and get back to writing for me, that I actually start to like my posts again. 

Of course, by comment count, the external realities are often exactly opposite of the above. 

Eh.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My shi**y posts nearly always come about when I feel some inane pressure to post SOMETHING. It&#8217;s when I remember that this whole exercise started - for me - as an electronic journal, and get back to writing for me, that I actually start to like my posts again. </p>
<p>Of course, by comment count, the external realities are often exactly opposite of the above. </p>
<p>Eh.</p>
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		<title>By: Jan</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2008/03/12/a-shy-post/#comment-222624</link>
		<dc:creator>Jan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Mar 2008 01:51:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My mother is too self-involved to read my blog.

Occasionally, when I write something especially witty, I'll direct her there.

Of her own volition, she can't be bothered. Which gives me open license to complain about her without fear of retribution. 

My mom's pretty tightly wound. She'd probably like you until she realized you wrote the word "penis" on the internet.  She'd say, "who does that." (sheltered,too.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My mother is too self-involved to read my blog.</p>
<p>Occasionally, when I write something especially witty, I&#8217;ll direct her there.</p>
<p>Of her own volition, she can&#8217;t be bothered. Which gives me open license to complain about her without fear of retribution. </p>
<p>My mom&#8217;s pretty tightly wound. She&#8217;d probably like you until she realized you wrote the word &#8220;penis&#8221; on the internet.  She&#8217;d say, &#8220;who does that.&#8221; (sheltered,too.)</p>
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		<title>By: CuriosityKiller</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2008/03/12/a-shy-post/#comment-222615</link>
		<dc:creator>CuriosityKiller</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Mar 2008 21:34:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You and I are from different worlds, Neil.  I can only PRAY that my mom doesn't read my blog... and I can't help but actually write shitty posts.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You and I are from different worlds, Neil.  I can only PRAY that my mom doesn&#8217;t read my blog&#8230; and I can&#8217;t help but actually write shitty posts.</p>
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		<title>By: Katie</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2008/03/12/a-shy-post/#comment-222583</link>
		<dc:creator>Katie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Mar 2008 16:53:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To me, it doesnt matter if it's "shitty" as long as it's real.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To me, it doesnt matter if it&#8217;s &#8220;shitty&#8221; as long as it&#8217;s real.</p>
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		<title>By: HeyJoe</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2008/03/12/a-shy-post/#comment-222581</link>
		<dc:creator>HeyJoe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Mar 2008 16:34:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Your shitty posts are better than my attempts to not be shitty.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your shitty posts are better than my attempts to not be shitty.</p>
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		<title>By: plain jane</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2008/03/12/a-shy-post/#comment-222569</link>
		<dc:creator>plain jane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Mar 2008 14:03:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Neil,

No matter how shitty the post you'll always have a warm place in my heart.

I read the post on Spitzer first and any guy who has never been to a prostitute AND doesn't even care to, is high on my list.  

I agree that prostitution should be legal.  But do you know that 90% of prostitutes have been sexually abused as children? Read some "fun facts" about this "victimless" crime. 

http://www.icasa.org/uploads/prostitution.pdf</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Neil,</p>
<p>No matter how shitty the post you&#8217;ll always have a warm place in my heart.</p>
<p>I read the post on Spitzer first and any guy who has never been to a prostitute AND doesn&#8217;t even care to, is high on my list.  </p>
<p>I agree that prostitution should be legal.  But do you know that 90% of prostitutes have been sexually abused as children? Read some &#8220;fun facts&#8221; about this &#8220;victimless&#8221; crime. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.icasa.org/uploads/prostitution.pdf" rel="nofollow">http://www.icasa.org/uploads/prostitution.pdf</a></p>
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		<title>By: Mid-Week Round-Up &#124; Los Angeles Metblogs</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2008/03/12/a-shy-post/#comment-222556</link>
		<dc:creator>Mid-Week Round-Up &#124; Los Angeles Metblogs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Mar 2008 03:46:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] at Citizen of the Month talks about the effect of a shitty post on an otherwise well-written blog. (He also breaks down the Democratic race and talks about [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] at Citizen of the Month talks about the effect of a shitty post on an otherwise well-written blog. (He also breaks down the Democratic race and talks about [...]</p>
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		<title>By: MammaLoves</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2008/03/12/a-shy-post/#comment-222554</link>
		<dc:creator>MammaLoves</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Mar 2008 03:27:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think my mom actually stopped reading my blog.

How sad is that?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think my mom actually stopped reading my blog.</p>
<p>How sad is that?</p>
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