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	<title>Comments on: Strong, Silent Type</title>
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	<description>Neil Kramer is a writer in Los Angeles (well, New York now).  Citizen of the Month is his blog.  Make yourself at home.</description>
	<pubDate>Fri, 05 Dec 2008 10:41:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Inner Dialog &#171; This Journey</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2006/10/17/strong-silent-type/#comment-134009</link>
		<dc:creator>Inner Dialog &#171; This Journey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Dec 2006 17:26:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] (UPDATE: Neil also chronicles his inner dialogs. Which is a good thing. I&#8217;m a bit jealous though that, as a man, he can call one of the voices &#8220;Neil&#8217;s Penis.&#8221; I have no problem with that. Why then, would you think, I would have a problem calling this last character &#8220;NFH&#8217;s Vagina?&#8221; And yet, it is the equivalent character. Maybe I&#8217;ll call her Libie as in Libido.) [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] (UPDATE: Neil also chronicles his inner dialogs. Which is a good thing. I&#8217;m a bit jealous though that, as a man, he can call one of the voices &#8220;Neil&#8217;s Penis.&#8221; I have no problem with that. Why then, would you think, I would have a problem calling this last character &#8220;NFH&#8217;s Vagina?&#8221; And yet, it is the equivalent character. Maybe I&#8217;ll call her Libie as in Libido.) [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Peefer&#8217;s Home &#187; Blog Archive &#187; (Inter)Ned Counselling: Session 3</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2006/10/17/strong-silent-type/#comment-116486</link>
		<dc:creator>Peefer&#8217;s Home &#187; Blog Archive &#187; (Inter)Ned Counselling: Session 3</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 15:42:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] &#8220;You should get your facts straight, Peef. It&#8217;s not an obsession for Neil. It&#8217;s more like an interruption.&#8221; [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] &#8220;You should get your facts straight, Peef. It&#8217;s not an obsession for Neil. It&#8217;s more like an interruption.&#8221; [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Bag O Bonez &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Sound Guy Geekism / To be manly or sensitive</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2006/10/17/strong-silent-type/#comment-109623</link>
		<dc:creator>Bag O Bonez &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Sound Guy Geekism / To be manly or sensitive</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Oct 2006 15:22:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Neil at Citizen of the Month wrote a blog called Strong, Silent Type. He said that he was feeling worried about how he wrote and acted and if it was sufficiently manly and not too sensitive. [...]</description>
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		<title>By: iso</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2006/10/17/strong-silent-type/#comment-106484</link>
		<dc:creator>iso</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Oct 2006 14:41:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>First Vagina monologues now Penile dialogues? 

The latter could seriously hamper natural propagation- unless of course people are encouraged to speak into the mic…

Err… anyhow, I’d rate that what woman want (or any one else for that matter) from your perspective isn’t half as important as what you want. That is not to say that everyone else needs are not important, but for numero uno it is rather irrelevant (and possibly confusing) if you are unsure of yourself. Want to knit teletubby sweaters for the neighbour dog? Be my guest and give the mutt something else to chew to shreds. Want to be a macho tough and buff meat head? That’s probably the best approach if you don’t want anyone to know about your little dance with piles but it doesn’t make it any less uncomfortable. People who are sure of themselves attract other people.</description>
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<p>The latter could seriously hamper natural propagation- unless of course people are encouraged to speak into the mic…</p>
<p>Err… anyhow, I’d rate that what woman want (or any one else for that matter) from your perspective isn’t half as important as what you want. That is not to say that everyone else needs are not important, but for numero uno it is rather irrelevant (and possibly confusing) if you are unsure of yourself. Want to knit teletubby sweaters for the neighbour dog? Be my guest and give the mutt something else to chew to shreds. Want to be a macho tough and buff meat head? That’s probably the best approach if you don’t want anyone to know about your little dance with piles but it doesn’t make it any less uncomfortable. People who are sure of themselves attract other people.</p>
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		<title>By: Tony Peaker</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2006/10/17/strong-silent-type/#comment-106426</link>
		<dc:creator>Tony Peaker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Oct 2006 09:30:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sure it's good to be macho and manly. But you can't keep it up all the time. I know I sure can't, eventually I crack and need to have a quick emotions outpouring.

Lately it's been more emotional than macho, but that's fine by me.

Say/write/be whoever the hell you want to be Neil, I'll still be reading it either way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sure it&#8217;s good to be macho and manly. But you can&#8217;t keep it up all the time. I know I sure can&#8217;t, eventually I crack and need to have a quick emotions outpouring.</p>
<p>Lately it&#8217;s been more emotional than macho, but that&#8217;s fine by me.</p>
<p>Say/write/be whoever the hell you want to be Neil, I&#8217;ll still be reading it either way.</p>
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		<title>By: Neil</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2006/10/17/strong-silent-type/#comment-106372</link>
		<dc:creator>Neil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Oct 2006 03:52:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>McKay -- winner of Blog Crush of the day for tomorrow for getting me out of this jam!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>McKay &#8212; winner of Blog Crush of the day for tomorrow for getting me out of this jam!</p>
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		<title>By: mckay</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2006/10/17/strong-silent-type/#comment-106368</link>
		<dc:creator>mckay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Oct 2006 03:28:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>would it surprise you to know that john wayne was rather insecure?

maybe insecure is just another way of saying someone's truly aware of all the facets of being human.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>would it surprise you to know that john wayne was rather insecure?</p>
<p>maybe insecure is just another way of saying someone&#8217;s truly aware of all the facets of being human.</p>
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		<title>By: Neil</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2006/10/17/strong-silent-type/#comment-106324</link>
		<dc:creator>Neil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2006 23:51:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Moviequill -- Not you, too!</description>
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		<title>By: kristen</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2006/10/17/strong-silent-type/#comment-106321</link>
		<dc:creator>kristen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2006 23:43:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I like men needy until they need me and I like men macho until they start scratching their balls. It depends on the man and macho or not, FUNNY always wins.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like men needy until they need me and I like men macho until they start scratching their balls. It depends on the man and macho or not, FUNNY always wins.</p>
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		<title>By: The Moviequill</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2006/10/17/strong-silent-type/#comment-106319</link>
		<dc:creator>The Moviequill</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2006 23:39:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Zack and Kendall reuniting rocks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Zack and Kendall reuniting rocks!</p>
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