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	<title>Comments on: Ummm&#8230; Like&#8230;</title>
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	<description>Neil Kramer is a writer in Los Angeles.  Citizen of the Month is his blog.  Make yourself at home.</description>
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		<title>By: Miss Eight-oh-Five</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2006/08/06/ummm-like/#comment-82496</link>
		<dc:creator>Miss Eight-oh-Five</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Aug 2006 19:18:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Neil - 

According to my sister, the speech therapist, the "um...like" habit is a non-worrisome form of "disfluency". A more severe form is stuttering. So, her suggestion is to just be aware when you are about to "um...like" and DON'T. And be happy you don't stutter.</description>
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<p>According to my sister, the speech therapist, the &#8220;um&#8230;like&#8221; habit is a non-worrisome form of &#8220;disfluency&#8221;. A more severe form is stuttering. So, her suggestion is to just be aware when you are about to &#8220;um&#8230;like&#8221; and DON&#8217;T. And be happy you don&#8217;t stutter.</p>
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		<title>By: The Cynical Girl</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2006/08/06/ummm-like/#comment-82471</link>
		<dc:creator>The Cynical Girl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Aug 2006 18:41:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You sound kind of british-noo-yawk without even getting henry higgins involved.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You sound kind of british-noo-yawk without even getting henry higgins involved.</p>
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		<title>By: elle</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2006/08/06/ummm-like/#comment-82343</link>
		<dc:creator>elle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Aug 2006 12:46:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You are so adorable.</description>
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		<title>By: jaymarie</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2006/08/06/ummm-like/#comment-82196</link>
		<dc:creator>jaymarie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Aug 2006 03:28:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>wonderful, perfect laugh.

don't change a thing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>wonderful, perfect laugh.</p>
<p>don&#8217;t change a thing.</p>
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		<title>By: claire</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2006/08/06/ummm-like/#comment-82108</link>
		<dc:creator>claire</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Aug 2006 00:19:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Congrats on the spot, Neil!

As for "um....like", my 12th grade English teacher made us start over any time we interjected either into our speech until we got through what we were saying without them.  It was annoying as all get out to be corrected so often, but it greatly reduced my usage of them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Congrats on the spot, Neil!</p>
<p>As for &#8220;um&#8230;.like&#8221;, my 12th grade English teacher made us start over any time we interjected either into our speech until we got through what we were saying without them.  It was annoying as all get out to be corrected so often, but it greatly reduced my usage of them.</p>
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		<title>By: Neil</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2006/08/06/ummm-like/#comment-82066</link>
		<dc:creator>Neil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Aug 2006 20:27:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sophia has started using an old Pavlovian technique to rid me of my "likes" and "ums." Brooke mentioned that they also use something similar in school speech classes. I now have a rubberband around my wrist, and if I use the evil words, my wrist gets snapped, either by her or myself. So, if I meet any of you in the near future and I say "um" or "like," feel free to cause me some pain.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sophia has started using an old Pavlovian technique to rid me of my &#8220;likes&#8221; and &#8220;ums.&#8221; Brooke mentioned that they also use something similar in school speech classes. I now have a rubberband around my wrist, and if I use the evil words, my wrist gets snapped, either by her or myself. So, if I meet any of you in the near future and I say &#8220;um&#8221; or &#8220;like,&#8221; feel free to cause me some pain.</p>
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		<title>By: Sarcomical</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2006/08/06/ummm-like/#comment-82065</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarcomical</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Aug 2006 19:51:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i do that all the time, too.  i think it's, like, a really difficult plague on our, um, generation, you know?  i had a professor in, um, college who taught phonetics and stuff and that really, like, ticked him the hell off.  

okay, that's a bit of an exaggeration, but you are not alone. ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i do that all the time, too.  i think it&#8217;s, like, a really difficult plague on our, um, generation, you know?  i had a professor in, um, college who taught phonetics and stuff and that really, like, ticked him the hell off.  </p>
<p>okay, that&#8217;s a bit of an exaggeration, but you are not alone. <img src='http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Heather B.</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2006/08/06/ummm-like/#comment-82063</link>
		<dc:creator>Heather B.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Aug 2006 19:36:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love finally hearing blogger's voices it's like a whole new world.
Also, dude! You sound like you're straight out of Park Slope or something.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love finally hearing blogger&#8217;s voices it&#8217;s like a whole new world.<br />
Also, dude! You sound like you&#8217;re straight out of Park Slope or something.</p>
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		<title>By: EEK</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2006/08/06/ummm-like/#comment-82047</link>
		<dc:creator>EEK</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Aug 2006 18:22:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Was it weird to hear yourself talk on the radio?  I remember singing into a tape recorder once as a kid, and when I played it back I thought my voice sounded really odd.  Also, I'm a bad singer.

Saying 'Ummm ... like' as a filler isn't that bad.  Sometimes I like listening to people speak that aren't overly polished -- it makes them seem more natural.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Was it weird to hear yourself talk on the radio?  I remember singing into a tape recorder once as a kid, and when I played it back I thought my voice sounded really odd.  Also, I&#8217;m a bad singer.</p>
<p>Saying &#8216;Ummm &#8230; like&#8217; as a filler isn&#8217;t that bad.  Sometimes I like listening to people speak that aren&#8217;t overly polished &#8212; it makes them seem more natural.</p>
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		<title>By: Scarlet</title>
		<link>http://www.citizenofthemonth.com/2006/08/06/ummm-like/#comment-82033</link>
		<dc:creator>Scarlet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Aug 2006 17:41:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Congrats! I can't listen now at work, but will ASAP. I used to have a radio show and would find myself saying the weirdest things. Like my mouth moved faster than my brain or something.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Congrats! I can&#8217;t listen now at work, but will ASAP. I used to have a radio show and would find myself saying the weirdest things. Like my mouth moved faster than my brain or something.</p>
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